Of course you want a partner who lives up to your expectations. But what are those expectations exactly? And how can you expect someone to live up to undefined expectations? So perhaps first you should think about what you want in a partner before you blame them for not being exactly who you want them to be.
What are the traits you are looking for in a partner? Honesty? A straight nose? Love? Friendlyness? Good sex? Meaningful conversations? A fast car?
What's important to you and - equally important - have you ever considered what's important to your partner? Here's a free tip in case you want to find out: ask.
Here's an interesting article on the subject of traits in a partner:
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