As seen here:

Copy this entire list into your blog/journal
BOLD everything about you that is true.
Leave plain anything that is false about you.
Put an * at the end of false statements you would LIKE to be true.

Here we go;

1. I have had sex while wearing a blindfold.
2. I have blindfolded someone else during sex.
3. I have had sex while watching porn.
4. I have had sex while surfing porn on the Internet.
5. I sleep better after sex.
6. There are some nights I cannot sleep without sex or masturbating.
7. The bed is NOT my most favorite place to have sex.
8. I am turned on knowing someone is watching me masturbate.
9. I have masturbated for someone over a web cam.
10. I have had sex over a web cam.
11. I will have sex with someone I just met if they turn me on.
12. I have been tied up during sex.
13. I have had sex with someone who was tied up.
14. I have dripped wax onto a lover's body.
15. I have had a lover drip wax onto my body.
16. I have a foot fetish.
17. I have a leather fetish.
18. I have a tickle fetish.
19. I like being choked during sex.
20. I have had sex in a burning building.
21. I have erotic art on display somewhere in my residence.
22. I enjoy nudie magazines.
23. Erotic toys are a regular part of my budget.
24. I think PLAYBOY is tame, maybe even boring.
25. I click on porn links in my email.
26. I know the difference between girl/girl and lesbian sex in porn.
27. I have watched more than one gay/lesbian porn video.
28. Much of what I know about sex comes from porn.
29. Interracial sex turns me on.
30. I think we should do more to understand the cultures of sex.
31. I would participate in sex research given the opportunity.
32. My current lover does not sufficiently meet my sexual needs.
33. I currently have a "crush" on someone of the same sex.
34. I have had sex at my place of employment.
35. I am often disappointed in my sexual relationships.
36. Some people might describe me as a nymphomaniac.
37. I am difficult to live with if I'm not having sex on a regular basis.
38. I sleep better with someone snuggled up next to me.
39. I have had sex under water.
40. I have had sex in the snow.
41. I am in a polyamorous relationship.
42. I have to have music playing while having sex.
43. I have had more than ten orgasms in one night. (My alltime personal record still stands at nine...)
44. I have flashed strangers.
45. I have given sex as a gift.
46. I have set-up a three-way for my lover.
47. I stopped during this list to have sex.
48. Garrison Steelle turns me on. (I had to look that one up but...no...not my type...)
49. I have fantasies involving Garrison Steelle.
50. I would pose nude for Garrison's camera if he promised to NEVER show them to anyone.

Last saturday my son got invited to be present at the opening of a new movie. The film "Eric of het Klein Insectenboek" was shot after the book by the same title of Dutch (and long dead) author Godfried Bomans.
We stood in front of the theatre when the limousines containing most of cast and crew arrived and the male fruit of my loins managed to get a few autographs. Sunday we scheduled a quiet day as we both felt a bit under the wheather. The weekend before was busy enough with his birthday bash an' all.

Unfortunately, just like last tuesday, we again did not manage to see his sister today as was promised to us by her mom.
Maybe it's time to take some legal steps as I am still her dad as opposed to "the other guy". On top of that our goldfish ("Rastaman") is dying. We took refuge in eating a lot nice things today in an attempt to surpress our true feelings.

In the meantime Ferdinands schizofrenic mother does not visit her son on a regular basis anymore and although I try very hard
to keep his surroundings as normal and stable as possible I find it increasingly harder to pretend nothing is the matter. Shall I continue the farce or take a rigorous measure like taking both my recognized children and ask for political asylum in Cuba?

It's my son's birthday today. Nine years ago he was born at a local hospital. A lot has changed since then: he gained a sister and perhaps even two...His dad switched carier from bookkeeping to childcare;
this country's population has changed its mind dramatically on the subject of camera-suveillance
and the line "Ausweis bitte!" People die by the thousands without those in power doing anything to ease their suffering and people are hardly in the mood to even help their own relatives.
But we won't give in! We will continue to fight for a better world in our own small way. Say goodmorning to the busdriver, help your elderly neighbour with her groceries, write letters to government-officials
and spread the world that it's not only easier but also more helpful to do good than bad. And keep on smiling although this world keeps being battered by hurricanes, earthquakes and unwilling politicians.
Help make this world a better place and enjoy life to the fullest!
(And probably die trying, but that's not the point)